I'm talking to the person who feels like they are often at odds with the people in their life. Did you ever notice that when people come at you, that you always overcome? Whatever people have tried to bring you down, you put up a good fight and always won. That is the sure sign that you are meant to lead.
So moving forward, set the boundaries you need to set, and take control of your life. Lead your life so you don't always have to be in fight mode.
What steps have you taken recently to take control and lead your life?